39 Things I've Learned About Life

Today is my birthday. I'm 39. This year, in particular, was a challenging year because of a variety of things. Despite those challenges and the emotional roller coaster I've been on, there are 39 things -- yes, 39 -- that I've learned that will help me over the next 39 (God willing):

1. Family above all else. Period.
2. A loving wife is the best support base you can ever have
3. Kids make the biggest difference in whether you stay grounded and humbled
4. Laughing should be a daily ritual
5. Don't sweat the small stuff
6. Work is only work unless you really enjoy what you love what you do
7. You can do anything, if you just take the time to learn
8. Helping others is something we all need to do more of
9. Social networking has helped us get closer to people we've lost touch with so value those relationships
10. Technology is not a hindrance
11. Learn as much as you can about everything; it'll come in handy
12. Read, read and read more
13. Challenge yourself every day
14. Take time to reflect on what's important in your life regularly
15. Don't be affraid to ask for help
16. When you have to say no, just say no
17. A smile can go a long way
18. A hug can go a longer way
19. Love big
20. Hate small
21. Taking care of your health is a must do
22. Even if you're not a writer, write
23. Take chances, you never know where they are going to lead you
24. It takes time, but trust people
25. Help others when you can or even when you can't
26. There's always someone less fortunate than you, remember that
27. There's always a job out there for you; you just have to find it, earn it and own it
28. I love New England and our crazy weather
29. Supporting your teams is a natural born right, regardless of what the haters say
30. Take as many photos and videos as you can to capture memories; it's important
31. Get to know your neighbors 
32. Get involved in local politics and issues that matter to you most
33. Embrace change because it happens, regardless
34. Doodle when you can; the creative part of your brain will thank you for it
35. Random is good, because you know, it's random
36. Be silly, because you know, you can
37. Music can heal
38. Take comfort in those that respect, love and cherish your company
39. Losing someone you love is the most difficult thing you'll ever go through, but there's light on the other side of that tunnel